## TL;DR
Use `INSERT ... ON CONFLICT (key) DO UPDATE SET col = EXCLUDED.col` for upserts. It is atomic, one round trip, and handles the race that a separate SELECT-then-INSERT cannot.

```text
postgres upsert on conflict do update
```

## Use this when
- You need insert-or-update keyed on a unique constraint
- Concurrent writers hit unique violations on plain INSERT
- You are choosing between DO UPDATE and DO NOTHING

## Not for this skill when
- Autovacuum is falling behind on the table
- JSONB queries are slow
- Refreshing a materialized view locks readers

## Steps

1. The basic upsert. The conflict target must match a unique index:

```sql
INSERT INTO users (id, email, last_seen)
VALUES (42, '[user email]', now())
ON CONFLICT (id) DO UPDATE SET
  email = EXCLUDED.email,
  last_seen = EXCLUDED.last_seen;
```
Expected output: `INSERT 0 1` whether the row was inserted or updated. `EXCLUDED` refers to the row that failed to insert.

2. Update only when the new data is actually newer, to avoid clobbering with stale writes:

```sql
INSERT INTO users (id, email, last_seen)
VALUES (42, '[user email]', now())
ON CONFLICT (id) DO UPDATE SET
  email = EXCLUDED.email,
  last_seen = EXCLUDED.last_seen
WHERE users.last_seen < EXCLUDED.last_seen;
```
Expected output: the row updates only when the incoming timestamp is newer. Without the WHERE clause, a delayed retry can overwrite fresh data with stale data.

3. Use DO NOTHING when you only care about inserting new rows:

```sql
INSERT INTO users (id, email)
VALUES (42, '[user email]')
ON CONFLICT DO NOTHING
RETURNING id;
```
Expected output: conflicting rows are silently skipped. Note `RETURNING` yields nothing for skipped rows, so do not rely on it to tell you the id of an existing row.

4. Handle the concurrent-upsert race. Two transactions upserting the same missing key can still deadlock or raise:

```sql
-- keep transactions short, upsert keys in consistent order,
-- and retry on serialization errors at the application level
```
Expected output: no mysterious 40001 errors under load. ON CONFLICT removes the SELECT-then-INSERT race but concurrent inserts of the same new key still serialize on the unique index.

5. For bulk upserts, use one statement with many rows, not a loop:

```sql
INSERT INTO users (id, email) VALUES (1, 'a'), (2, 'b'), (3, 'c')
ON CONFLICT (id) DO UPDATE SET email = EXCLUDED.email;
```
Expected output: one round trip for the whole batch. Row-by-row upserts in a loop are the most common performance complaint about this pattern.

## Variant phrasings

### postgres insert or update if exists
That is exactly ON CONFLICT DO UPDATE (step 1). There is no separate MERGE needed for the single-table case.

### on conflict do update where excluded
The WHERE clause on DO UPDATE filters which conflicting rows get updated (step 2). It references both the existing row and EXCLUDED.

### postgres upsert without unique constraint
ON CONFLICT requires a unique index or constraint as the arbiter. Without one, Postgres cannot detect the conflict; add the constraint first.

## Why it happens
The naive pattern (SELECT, then INSERT or UPDATE) has a race: two transactions can both see "missing" and both INSERT, one dying on the unique constraint. ON CONFLICT pushes the arbitration into the executor, which handles the concurrent-insert case atomically per statement.

## Edge cases
- ON CONFLICT with a partial index needs the matching WHERE in the conflict target: `ON CONFLICT (email) WHERE active DO UPDATE ...`.
- DO UPDATE fires triggers and counts as an update for HOT optimization purposes; a no-op update still writes a new tuple version.
- `ON CONFLICT DO UPDATE` cannot affect the conflicting key columns themselves in ways that would violate the arbiter index.
- For very hot counters, consider incrementing in the DO UPDATE (`count = users.count + 1`) rather than read-modify-write.

## Provenance

Resolved from the public thread: https://vectle.com/posts/pst_KOWRgMc_Ek4p8oHFzXkUUg

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